The financial part is a piece that can't be ignored, as it has been around for a long time. I do suggest that you look for my book, at your library or on amazon, as it offers many explanations for why men and women are interested in this fantasy. B arbara Nitke In all relationships, however, there are many perspectives, and each person's emotions, thoughts, and beliefs take frequent twists and turns. It's just not what I'm going for in this discussion. And although I sought out your book to find a clear, rational, and scientific understanding of a lifestyle that I enjoy, difficult as it is to explain I found that, by the very scientific rational way the book explains it, it somewhat brought the magic out of it for me, although I do concede that sometimes science is guilty of taking the fun out of reality by it's cold, hard, facts. Chapter 2 Sexual Orientation.
Q&A: I Fantastize About My Wife Having Sex With Other Men
We use a large black dildo and vibrator and she has several intense orgasms. In order to do that in a marriage, both need to consent to it. Why does my husband not want to come to bed with me? I thanked her for my extra special birthday present and she looked down bashfully. He wants me being more degrading towards him but I don't have it in me to be mean in that way towards someone I love so dearly. Every couple we know who brought in outside sex partners ended up getting married and divorced multiple times. This fantasy reminds me of the movie Indecent Proposal.
Hubby Fantasy - wife watching voyeur exhibitionism
But as you noted, this is foolish thinking because there are always consequences. If he did are you comfortable enough with it to shrug it off or will you feel deeply injured? At this point, I hurriedly returned to my room to listen. The OP wants more info about this and I think it is wise of her to ask because she needs more advice on the possible repercussions of this decision.
Jennifer's Husband's Fantasy
Description: Fantasies and comfort levels regarding acting on them or just keeping them inside their mind are decisions each couple has to make on their own. As long as every one has fun and the wife gets off on the sex while he watches, go for it. Turns out he would love to watch me doing it with other men and then have me after them. In our case it was my initial idea and my wife decied to give it a try. After a few 4sums I decided I loved seeing her with another guy with me joining them instead of having another woman for me because my pleasure was more watching my wife enjoying herself.